Cammy Adler is aimless. She moved to New York City to make it as a writer, but, on the cusp of turning thirty, she has little to show for it. She’s stuck in dead-end temp jobs with many, many unfinished manuscripts and projects as detritus in her wake. Her home is a basement apartment in Queens that should probably be condemned, and her former boyfriend broke up with her after she cheated on him and confessed. When her father — the man who was the glue of her family, and her center — suddenly dies, Cammy is cast even further adrift.
Cammy sullenly heads home to New Jersey to sit shiva, the Jewish period of mourning that lasts for seven days. Facing her grieving mother and the ever-present memories of her dad, Cammy is forced to acknowledge who she was when she left River Hill, and how little has changed — both in River Hill and within herself. As the week drags on, Cammy becomes more and more unglued. She has knock-down, drag-out fights with her mother, skips shiva to smoke weed, manages to get arrested, and absconds to Atlantic City to gamble away her small savings with her best friend Fran. Will Cammy ever be able to face her deep grief, or will she self-destruct in her hometown?
Cary Gitter deftly navigates the reader through the complex, competing emotions that accompany sitting shiva and mourning loved ones. Filled with delightful characters, the darkly funny and beautifully compassionate Cammy Sitting Shiva is a reflection on who you are, and who you want to be. It’s a testament to the intricacies of family and friendship, and the history that comes with going home again.