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Good Grief

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By – August 18, 2025

Sara Good­man Confino’s new nov­el tells the sto­ry of Bar­bara Feld­man, a thir­ty-two-year-old wid­ow of two years who is rais­ing two young chil­dren on her own. One day Ruth, her moth­er-in-law, shows up at her house with five suit­cas­es, deter­mined to stay as long as Bar­bara needs” her. But Bar­bara is exer­cis­ing her new-found inde­pen­dence and doesn’t feel she needs any help. She has start­ed a new job at the local hos­pi­tal and her chil­dren are grad­u­al­ly learn­ing to laugh again. 

But she can’t say no to Ruth, anoth­er wid­ow who is griev­ing the loss of her son, too. So Bar­bara accom­mo­dates her, but resolves that the vis­it will only be for two weeks. That two weeks grows into more weeks, then months as Ruth makes her­self at home and the two women strug­gle with each oth­er over cook­ing, child-rear­ing, and inte­ri­or dec­o­rat­ing. After Ruth near­ly burns down the kitchen, Bar­bara decides she must get Ruth out of the house. She comes up with a clever idea: she will find a nice man for Ruth to mar­ry. Unbe­knownst to Bar­bara, Ruth has the same plan for her.

The intri­ca­cies of this dou­ble match-mak­ing make for a delight­ful read. The char­ac­ters all ring true and there are even some sur­pris­es in store for the read­er. Con­fi­no por­trays the grief over loss poignant­ly and real­is­ti­cal­ly, includ­ing the fact that it is nec­es­sary for them both to move on in their lives. 

These are two very dif­fer­ent women, but beyond all the schem­ing and argu­ments, they find the strength to help each oth­er face their futures. 

Jill S. Beer­man grew up in New Jer­sey and attend­ed Mont­clair State Uni­ver­si­ty. She has a doc­tor­ate in Amer­i­can Stud­ies from New York Uni­ver­si­ty. She taught high school and col­lege for twen­ty-five years. 

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