Non­fic­tion

Return­ing: A Search for Home Across Three Centuries

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By – March 20, 2026

Jews have been part of Amer­i­ca since its incep­tion. Many peo­ple know this in the abstract, but it takes a book like Nicholas Lemann’s Return­ing: A Search for Home Across Three Cen­turies to show just how linked Jew­ish and Amer­i­can his­to­ry are. Writ­ten with the keen eye of a jour­nal­ist, the per­spec­tive of a his­to­ri­an, and the love of a grand­child, Lemann charts the course of five of his family’s gen­er­a­tions in America. 

The book begins with Lemann’s great-great-grand­fa­ther Jacob who left Ger­many in the first half of the nine­teenth cen­tu­ry, set­tled in New Orleans, and rose from ped­dler to the own­er of a dry goods store. With this suc­cess, Jacob plant­ed the seeds for the thriv­ing of lat­er gen­er­a­tions. Jacob’s ances­tors would own land, includ­ing plan­ta­tions; attend Har­vard law school; and find audi­ences with Pres­i­dent Rosevelt. The book, in a way, feels like a Jew­ish ver­sion of For­est Gump, as the Lemann fam­i­ly find their way into some of the most con­se­quen­tial events of the past two hun­dred years. 

Although var­i­ous gen­er­a­tions of the Lemann fam­i­ly left New Orleans — find­ing their way back to Europe or New York — New Orleans remains at the core of the family’s iden­ti­ty. Lemann speaks pas­sion­ate­ly of the strug­gle for Jew­ish accep­tance in the Mar­ti Gras krewes. He charts the inter­nal pol­i­tics of New Orleans syn­a­gogues, includ­ing one at which his great uncle served as rab­bi. And he wres­tles with the his­to­ry and lega­cy of slav­ery in the city, a trade in which Jacob participated.

Lat­er in the book, Lemann turns his atten­tion away from his family’s sto­ry and toward his own. After chron­i­cling his first mar­riage and his ear­ly sec­u­lar rela­tion­ship to Judaism, he explains how his mar­riage to Judith Shule­vitz brought him back into the fold. Lemann spends the end of his book talk­ing about the pow­er of his Shab­bat com­mu­ni­ty and the chal­lenge of being Jew­ish in a time when Israel has become a pariah. 

Lemann’s nuanced defense of Israel lat­er in the book is espe­cial­ly telling in light of the account only a few chap­ters before of his father’s pas­sion­ate anti-Zion­ism. In a way, Lemann’s dis­cus­sion of Israel serves as a micro­cosm of the book as a whole. Return­ing charts a series of cycles: from reli­gion to sec­u­lar­ism to reli­gion, from the south to the north and back again. It shows that fam­i­lies are often in dia­logue with their past even as they con­stant­ly evolve. 

Return­ing: A Search for Home Across Three Cen­turies is for any­one who wants an inti­mate sto­ry with uni­ver­sal themes that will chal­lenge and inspire us, and make us think about our own fam­i­lies’ stories.

Join Daniela Ger­son and Nicholas Lemann in a con­ver­sa­tion with Stephanie But­nick root­ed in find­ing your place in the world after war or tragedy on April 15 at The Jew­ish Museum!

Rab­bi Marc Katz is the Rab­bi at Tem­ple Ner Tamid in Bloom­field, NJ. He is author of the books Yochanan’s Gam­ble: Judaism’s Prag­mat­ic Approach to Life (JPS) cho­sen as a final­ist for the PROSE award and The Heart of Lone­li­ness: How Jew­ish Wis­dom Can Help You Cope and Find Com­fort (Turn­er Pub­lish­ing) which was cho­sen as a final­ist for the Nation­al Jew­ish Book Award. 

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