Books about Jewish rituals as well as how and why we observe them are important tools in educating children and keeping our heritage alive. When the book also references a loss, such as that of a grandparent, it is even more valuable. Not every parent or caregiver is comfortable with the subject or proficient in explaining it in an unfrightening or appropriate manner. This is one of the reasons that Something Sweet can be just the right book for a particular moment in a child’s life.
Lizzie and her mother pay a shiva call to Lizzie’s friend, Josh, upon the death of Josh’s grandfather. They bring fragrant homemade brownies, and Lizzie’s mother explains shiva in a simple, effective manner, one that both Lizzie and the reader can easily absorb. She tells Lizzie that it is important to spend time with her friend but that she shouldn’t expect their regular lighthearted interactions, pointing out that Josh might feel emotional and sad about the loss of his grandfather. She describes the traditions of washing hands at the door after a funeral, covering mirrors, group prayers, and sharing meaningful memories. The roles of family and good friends who provide comfort are emphasized.
Softly colored illustrations alternate with some which are sepia-toned when Josh shares loving memories of his grandfather. An extensive author’s note is appended discussing the role of shiva in Jewish life and enumerating several traditional observances.
This book will fill an important niche in Jewish family life and will be read again and again.
Michal Hoschander Malen is the editor of Jewish Book Council’s young adult and children’s book reviews. A former librarian, she has lectured on topics relating to literacy, run book clubs, and loves to read aloud to her grandchildren.