With Sprin­kles on Top offers a pos­i­tive and empow­er­ing resource for talk­ing about and work­ing through sex­u­al dif­fer­ences — par­tic­u­lar­ly between kinky and vanil­la part­ners. With more than 80 per­cent of adult cou­ples in the US report­ing desire dis­crep­an­cies between part­ners, and many peo­ple hold­ing fan­tasies they don’t feel com­fort­able shar­ing, With Sprin­kles on Top offers much-need­ed sup­port.

Here you’ll find: Help­ful infor­ma­tion about BDSM and kink — what it is, its effects on rela­tion­ships, what a partner’s inter­est might imply… or not! Work­sheets and ques­tion­naires to help each part­ner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to exper­i­men­ta­tion, and how to talk about it. Set­ting bound­aries — tips for feel­ing safe and draw­ing the line with care, guid­ance for stay­ing true to your­self, sat­is­fy­ing your part­ner, and find­ing new delights togeth­er. Insights and guid­ance on what ​“nor­mal” and ​“kinky” actu­al­ly mean, bring­ing imag­i­na­tion into the bed­room, polyamorous pos­si­bil­i­ties, and much more. Focus­ing on com­mu­ni­ca­tion and con­nec­tion, this guide helps you find the sprin­kles that can enhance your relationship.