It’s 1986. Yasha Resnick is preparing to become a bar mitzvah when his parents move the family from their comfortable Brooklyn surroundings to an unfamiliar New Jersey suburb. In Brooklyn’s Brighton Beach (referred to in the novel as Brighton), they are surrounded by a community of Russian Jews, like themselves. But Yasha’s hard-working parents hope to complete their American Dream by moving to a bigger home in a comparatively bucolic environment. For Yasha, that means the difficult process of cultural assimilation. Suddenly, his clothing, food, and New York accent bring him unwanted attention, and conflicts with his parents seem unresolvable. Margaret Gurevich’s middle-grade novel sensitively portrays the way one boy navigates difficult changes, struggling to find the best of two worlds.
Adult hypocrisy is hard enough for Yasha to understand. Katya, the real estate agent who sold the Resnicks their new home in Rockwood, New Jersey, belongs to one of the only other Russian families in the neighborhood. But she goes by Katie and has turned her back on her identity — as has her son, Alex, who is Yasha’s age. Katie gives Yasha a steady stream of advice on how to fit in. Bringing him Alex’s outgrown clothes, she encourages him to abandon gold chains and denim shorts for polo shirts and chinos. The aroma of stuffed cabbage and Russian salad is unwelcome in the school cafeteria, and Yasha’s name invites ridicule from Alex’s conformist friends. Soon he has decided to call himself Jake, hoping to evade the hostility he confronts just by being himself.
Yasha meets with Rabbi Fred to practice reading Torah and discuss his speech. This experience is also a confusing contrast to his Brooklyn shul, where the expectations of a boy’s performance were more limited, and the personal aspect of the milestone less important. In addition, Rabbi Fred expects Yasha to choose a mitzvah project to enhance the significance of becoming a Jewish adult. When Yasha decides to meet with Bernie, a resident of the assisted living facility where Mrs. Resnick works, what might have been a chore becomes a door to intergenerational understanding. One of the most intense sources of tension for Yasha is his father’s insistence that soccer, a Russian obsession, is the only sport for his son to pursue. Yasha is fixated on baseball and on the possibility that the Mets might make it to the World Series. Surprisingly, Bernie is also an avid fan of the great American pastime. His friendship with Yasha deepens, and becomes essential for both of them.
Gurevich does not avoid the painful reality of adolescent peer group dynamics. Alex’s friends’ intolerance borders on cruelty. They are determined to build up their own self-esteem by tormenting Yasha, who is unable to distance himself emotionally from this familiar situation. Gurevich’s scene of a hypercompetitive Monopoly game among the boys evokes the high-stakes drama rooted in who will win and who will lose. Relieving the misery of rejection, Yasha finds a new group of friends who not only accept him, but also enjoy the unfamiliar elements of Russian culture. The zefir treats his mother insists on bringing to a get-together remind one boy of Mallomars.
Eventually, Yasha does celebrate an amazing bar mitzvah ceremony. The Mets are not the only ones to achieve an unlikely victory in this highly recommended and realistic story of growth and change.
Emily Schneider writes about literature, feminism, and culture for Tablet, The Forward, The Horn Book, and other publications, and writes about children’s books on her blog. She has a Ph.D. in Romance Languages and Literatures.