Sher­ry Amaten­stein, LCSW, is a ther­a­pist and author of Q&A Dat­ing Book, Love Lessons from Bad Breakups and Com­plete Mar­riage Coun­selor. She has offered rela­tion­ship advice on Today and NPR. She runs work­shops around the coun­try and at retreat cen­ters such as Omega.Amatenstein is a for­mer edi­tor at Hearst, and writes for many pub­li­ca­tions includ­ing Brides and The Forward.