In Rainbow Rosenbloom, Kokos the dybbuk may have met her match. Centuries spent disrupting the lives of unsuspecting Jews hadn’t prepared her for Rainbow — a pork-eating, Shabbat-ignoring, proudly gay young woman living in 1980s London. But a deal is a deal. And Kokos intends to honor her two-hundred-year-old commitment to torment the female descendants of one Gittel, who chose to spurn the woman with whom she was secretly involved in order to marry a prominent young scholar.
And that means figuring out what to do with Gittel’s unlikely progeny.
The Dyke and the Dybbuk, by Ellen Galford, takes readers on a wild voyage through the braided journeys of Kokos, Rainbow, and their motley crew of companions. Among others, we meet Naomi, a secular Jew in a relationship with a former nun named Mary-Catherine, and a cadre of bickering aunts who offer heaping portions of food and unwanted advice in equal measure. Oh, and an array of conniving (but lovable) demons with various special haunting skills.
It’s a raucous ride through time and space. Despite being narrated entirely by the dybbuk Kokos, The Dyke and the Dybbuk hops from century to century, from the physical to the metaphysical, and (at one point) from raindrop to raindrop, without missing a beat. A dybbuk, after all, is famous for possessing its victims, and the author takes full advantage of this mythical capability.
As the story unfolds, the identities of heroes and villains become increasingly muddied. Everyone, it turns out, is both endearing and infuriating — depending on the context. Kokos, a traditionalist, is trying to do her job, even as the world of haunts and ghosts becomes steadily more corporate. Rainbow is trying to figure out how to reconcile the Jewish and queer aspects of her identity. Anya, the woman who originally cursed Gittel? Well, she’s just trying to nurse a broken heart. The author refuses every opportunity to cave to stereotypes, opting instead for depth that encourages empathy.
Galford achieves this, in part, by making Kokos so hilarious. A demon who specializes in tormenting Jews should have extra chutzpah and verve. It also helps that the dybbuk is an expert in Jewish culture, tradition, laws, and mannerisms. When she declares Rainbow’s exceptionally observant Aunt Goldie “my kind of girl,” one can’t help but smile. It’s clearly true: Kokos quotes everything from the Talmud to Martin Buber (she refers to the Jewish canon as “one reading list you’ll never catch up on,” suggesting “maybe that’s why all those teenaged yeshiva scholars look so harried.”) Despite being called to bedevil Jews, she clearly admires these people. Ironically, being possessed by a dybbuk offers Rainbow an avenue for self-acceptance, too.
The Dyke and the Dybbuk was first published in 1993 and remains stunningly relevant. Besides the absence of modern-day tech (smartphones, GPS, tablets, and the like), the narrative arc could have been written today. We still live in a world where the Jewish community grapples with questions of belonging, generational chasms, and the ongoing challenge to hold up an umbrella large enough to shelter Jews like Rainbow, her aunt Goldie, and everyone in between.
Galford has some ideas on how to square these circles, but no solid answers. The trick, perhaps, is in avoiding concrete truths altogether. “You can’t spend all those centuries working with my particular client group without learning something from your subjects about survival,” quips Kokos. Survival, described here, means adapting. Keeping your mind open. After all, redemption may come from the most improbable of places.
Mikhal Weiner is an Israeli-American writer, journalist, and part-time Cantor living in New Jersey with her wife and two kids. She graduated Summa cum Laude from Berklee College of Music in 2014. She has written music and book reviews, profiles of artists, reported work, and personal essays for publications like Parents, NY Jewish Week, Real Simple, Pride Source, and more. Her Substack, Welcome to the Chaos Palace, is about exploring the idea that coloring outside the lines can unlock new realms of creativity and innovation. It’s also about being a mom with ADHD and Judaism and queerness. Her work, whether text or music, is deeply influenced by her experiences growing up as an Israeli gay woman in the early aughts and her love of words and music. She loves writing about people, places and the ways their stories intersect.