Maurice J. Elias is Professor Psychology Department Rutgers University and Director Rutgers Social-Emotional and Character Development Lab (www.secdlab.org). He has written Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Talking Treasure: Stories to Help Build Emotional Intelligence and Resilience in Young Children (www.researchpress.com) The Joys & Oys of Parenting (Behrman House) blogs on Social-Emotional and Character Development (SECD) at www.edutopia.org and lectures nationally and internationally.