Back­ground pho­to by Make­Sumo on Unsplash

Romance feels like a nat­ur­al genre for Jew­ish rep­re­sen­ta­tion. We’ve got match­mak­ing; we’ve got the soul­mate con­cept of bash­ert; we’ve got the stereo­type of every Jew­ish moth­er in exis­tence try­ing to set her daugh­ter up with a doc­tor; we’ve got com­mu­nal pres­sure to ensure and teach future gen­er­a­tions. We as a peo­ple love love, and we have a glo­ri­ous num­ber of Jew­ish romances being released every year to show for it. We’ve even made impres­sive inroads into the Hol­i­day Romance mar­ket with more and more sto­ries set dur­ing Hanukkah com­ing out. 

What we don’t see quite as much are Romance nov­els where Jew­ish law and phi­los­o­phy play a large role, where char­ac­ters grap­ple with rules gov­ern­ing phys­i­cal inti­ma­cy, plan din­ner dates around keep­ing kosher, or build their lives around the tenets of Judaism, espe­cial­ly sto­ries set in mod­ern times. In my debut adult nov­el, Soon By You, all the major char­ac­ters are Mod­ern Ortho­dox — as I am — ful­ly engag­ing in the out­side world while also spend­ing Shab­bat and hol­i­days togeth­er, attend­ing tra­di­tion­al Jew­ish wed­dings, and nav­i­gat­ing dif­fer­ing atti­tudes toward pre­mar­i­tal sex and its relat­ed pro­hi­bi­tions — all to fun­ny, roman­tic, and very steamy ends. 

The fol­low­ing sev­en books all promise not just hap­py end­ings for their fea­tured para­mours, but specif­i­cal­ly fac­tor in some unique­ly Jew­ish and rarely seen facets on that path­way to love and joy. 

Unortho­dox Love by Hei­di Shertok 

Shertok’s debut is a Mod­ern Ortho­dox delight that han­dles some heav­ier sub­jects with humor and chem­istry. Our hero­ine, Pen­i­na, is infer­tile, which has made find­ing a match in a com­mu­ni­ty focused on pro­cre­ation almost impos­si­ble. But what hap­pens when she finds love out­side the nar­row­er bound­aries of Ortho­doxy? It means grap­pling with an obser­vance gap, par­tic­u­lar­ly notable as Pen­i­na is Shomer Negiah — the only pre­mar­i­tal touch­ing between her and our hero/​her boss, Sam, is inci­den­tal — and hav­ing to dig into the nit­ty grit­ty of find­ing oth­er ways to become a par­ent with­in the con­fines of Jew­ish law, mak­ing for a rom-com rich in both detail and heart. 

The Inti­ma­cy Exper­i­ment by Rosie Danan 

Speak­ing of obser­vance gaps, you’d be hard-pressed to find a more intrigu­ing one than in Danan’s rom-com between a savvy woman who’s made her name in sex work and a hot reform rab­bi look­ing to grow his con­gre­ga­tion. The result is smart, steamy, and sur­pris­ing­ly full of Jew­ish phi­los­o­phy on top of dis­cus­sions of faith and inti­ma­cy. Plus, with Nao­mi being active­ly inter­est­ed in fur­ther explor­ing her Jew­ish roots, and Ethan being an eager teacher, it’s easy to fall for the jour­ney they take together. 

Break­out Year by KD Casey

All of Casey’s gay base­ball romances, which include the Unwrit­ten Rules series, have Jew­ish rep­re­sen­ta­tion, but this newest is the first with a Jew­ish-Jew­ish pair­ing, includ­ing an Ortho­dox for­mer ballplay­er named Aki­va who’s had to wres­tle with all sorts of things being in seem­ing con­tra­dic­tion to his reli­gious life. Cur­rent pro baller Eitan knows all about that, being the first active open­ly gay play­er, and though he and Aki­va knew each oth­er once upon a time, they’re only reunit­ed by the most unusu­al of cir­cum­stances — Aki­va turns out to be the per­son Eitan hired to pre­tend to be his boyfriend. It’s not the sporti­est of Casey’s books, but it’s a great read for sports romance fans and Jew­ish romance lovers alike. 

Hold Me Down by Sara Tay­lor Woods

For those look­ing for a kinky New Adult Romance, you’ll be hard-pressed to find one more com­plex, thought­ful, and Jew­ish than Woods’s debut. This erot­ic romance stars a Jew­ish col­lege stu­dent named Talia who’s get­ting a mul­ti-lay­ered edu­ca­tion, includ­ing an intro to the world of BDSM. Famil­ial expec­ta­tions play a big role in this one, and no doubt many a Jew­ish new adult will see them­selves in Talia, whether or not sub­mis­sion is their per­son­al thing.

Crav­ing Flight by Tam­sen Parker

Speak­ing of BDSM romances, Park­er pro­vides a very dif­fer­ent con­text, pair­ing up a ba’alat teshu­va divorcee named Tzip­po­rah with strong and silent wid­ow­er Elan. While the Ortho­dox lat­er-in-life pair­ing isn’t exact­ly a love match at first, com­ing to find they have sim­i­lar, less ortho­dox inter­ests in bed leads them to a beau­ti­ful and authen­tic mar­i­tal bond. 

Mat­zo Match by Roz Alexander

If you’re look­ing for Sap­ph­ic Jew­ish romances that cov­er the less com­mon hol­i­days, Alexander’s Hot for the Hol­i­days series is your dream des­ti­na­tion. An inter­ra­cial les­bian age-gap romance, Mat­zo Match is the first in the series. It kicks off with Passover prep, cen­ters on a Seder, and is hot­ter than a mouth­ful of maror.

Kiss­ing Kosher by Jean Meltzer

Meltzer is one of tra­di­tion­al publishing’s most pro­lif­ic authors of Jew­ish Romance. This bak­ing-cen­tric rom-com is my per­son­al favorite. Hero­ine Avi­tal suf­fers from chron­ic pelvic pain (if you’re new to Meltzer’s cat­a­log, you’ll find it chock-full of chron­ic dis­abil­i­ty rep­re­sen­ta­tion), but she can bake one hell of a bab­ka — she just needs a lit­tle help. But Ethan isn’t the dream assis­tant she’s look­ing for…at least in the sense that he’s work­ing under­cov­er for his fam­i­ly. But he also knows just how to help Avi­tal deal with her pain (spoil­er: it’s the secret ingre­di­ent in Mag­ic Bab­ka), and how to help her find plea­sure afterward. 

Soon By You by Dahlia Adler

Dahlia Adler’s lat­est nov­el, Soon By You, is an ene­my-to-lovers romance that peeks into the closed world of New York City’s young Ortho­dox Jews with authen­tic­i­ty, spice, humor, and a gen­er­ous amount of f‑bombs.” ~Bran­di Larsen, JBC reviewer

Dahlia Adler (edi­tor) is an edi­tor of math­e­mat­ics by day, the over­lord of LGBTQReads by night, and a Young Adult author at every spare moment in between. She is the edi­tor of the antholo­gies His Hideous Heart (a Junior Library Guild selec­tion) and That Way Mad­ness Lies, and the author of many nov­els, includ­ing Cool for the Sum­mer. She lives in New York with her fam­i­ly and an obscene num­ber of books.