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Romance feels like a natural genre for Jewish representation. We’ve got matchmaking; we’ve got the soulmate concept of bashert; we’ve got the stereotype of every Jewish mother in existence trying to set her daughter up with a doctor; we’ve got communal pressure to ensure and teach future generations. We as a people love love, and we have a glorious number of Jewish romances being released every year to show for it. We’ve even made impressive inroads into the Holiday Romance market with more and more stories set during Hanukkah coming out.
What we don’t see quite as much are Romance novels where Jewish law and philosophy play a large role, where characters grapple with rules governing physical intimacy, plan dinner dates around keeping kosher, or build their lives around the tenets of Judaism, especially stories set in modern times. In my debut adult novel, Soon By You, all the major characters are Modern Orthodox — as I am — fully engaging in the outside world while also spending Shabbat and holidays together, attending traditional Jewish weddings, and navigating differing attitudes toward premarital sex and its related prohibitions — all to funny, romantic, and very steamy ends.
The following seven books all promise not just happy endings for their featured paramours, but specifically factor in some uniquely Jewish and rarely seen facets on that pathway to love and joy.
Unorthodox Love by Heidi Shertok
Shertok’s debut is a Modern Orthodox delight that handles some heavier subjects with humor and chemistry. Our heroine, Penina, is infertile, which has made finding a match in a community focused on procreation almost impossible. But what happens when she finds love outside the narrower boundaries of Orthodoxy? It means grappling with an observance gap, particularly notable as Penina is Shomer Negiah — the only premarital touching between her and our hero/her boss, Sam, is incidental — and having to dig into the nitty gritty of finding other ways to become a parent within the confines of Jewish law, making for a rom-com rich in both detail and heart.
The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan
Speaking of observance gaps, you’d be hard-pressed to find a more intriguing one than in Danan’s rom-com between a savvy woman who’s made her name in sex work and a hot reform rabbi looking to grow his congregation. The result is smart, steamy, and surprisingly full of Jewish philosophy on top of discussions of faith and intimacy. Plus, with Naomi being actively interested in further exploring her Jewish roots, and Ethan being an eager teacher, it’s easy to fall for the journey they take together.
Breakout Year by KD Casey
All of Casey’s gay baseball romances, which include the Unwritten Rules series, have Jewish representation, but this newest is the first with a Jewish-Jewish pairing, including an Orthodox former ballplayer named Akiva who’s had to wrestle with all sorts of things being in seeming contradiction to his religious life. Current pro baller Eitan knows all about that, being the first active openly gay player, and though he and Akiva knew each other once upon a time, they’re only reunited by the most unusual of circumstances — Akiva turns out to be the person Eitan hired to pretend to be his boyfriend. It’s not the sportiest of Casey’s books, but it’s a great read for sports romance fans and Jewish romance lovers alike.
Hold Me Down by Sara Taylor Woods
For those looking for a kinky New Adult Romance, you’ll be hard-pressed to find one more complex, thoughtful, and Jewish than Woods’s debut. This erotic romance stars a Jewish college student named Talia who’s getting a multi-layered education, including an intro to the world of BDSM. Familial expectations play a big role in this one, and no doubt many a Jewish new adult will see themselves in Talia, whether or not submission is their personal thing.
Craving Flight by Tamsen Parker
Speaking of BDSM romances, Parker provides a very different context, pairing up a ba’alat teshuva divorcee named Tzipporah with strong and silent widower Elan. While the Orthodox later-in-life pairing isn’t exactly a love match at first, coming to find they have similar, less orthodox interests in bed leads them to a beautiful and authentic marital bond.
Matzo Match by Roz Alexander
If you’re looking for Sapphic Jewish romances that cover the less common holidays, Alexander’s Hot for the Holidays series is your dream destination. An interracial lesbian age-gap romance, Matzo Match is the first in the series. It kicks off with Passover prep, centers on a Seder, and is hotter than a mouthful of maror.
Kissing Kosher by Jean Meltzer
Meltzer is one of traditional publishing’s most prolific authors of Jewish Romance. This baking-centric rom-com is my personal favorite. Heroine Avital suffers from chronic pelvic pain (if you’re new to Meltzer’s catalog, you’ll find it chock-full of chronic disability representation), but she can bake one hell of a babka — she just needs a little help. But Ethan isn’t the dream assistant she’s looking for…at least in the sense that he’s working undercover for his family. But he also knows just how to help Avital deal with her pain (spoiler: it’s the secret ingredient in Magic Babka), and how to help her find pleasure afterward.
Soon By You by Dahlia Adler
“Dahlia Adler’s latest novel, Soon By You, is an enemy-to-lovers romance that peeks into the closed world of New York City’s young Orthodox Jews with authenticity, spice, humor, and a generous amount of f‑bombs.” ~Brandi Larsen, JBC reviewer
Dahlia Adler (editor) is an editor of mathematics by day, the overlord of LGBTQReads by night, and a Young Adult author at every spare moment in between. She is the editor of the anthologies His Hideous Heart (a Junior Library Guild selection) and That Way Madness Lies, and the author of many novels, including Cool for the Summer. She lives in New York with her family and an obscene number of books.