Non­fic­tion

The Pen & the Mir­ror: Wis­dom from 50 Years of Journaling

  • From the Publisher
September 1, 2025

The Pen & the Mir­ror: Wis­dom from 50 Years of Jour­nal­ing is not a Jew­ish book in the nar­row sense, but it is deeply root­ed in Jew­ish thought, val­ues, and lived expe­ri­ence. Writ­ten by a Japan­ese Amer­i­can man mar­ried into a Jew­ish fam­i­ly, the book reflects a life­long engage­ment with reflec­tion, moral account­abil­i­ty, grat­i­tude, pur­pose, and respon­si­bil­i­ty to oth­ers — core pil­lars of Jew­ish tra­di­tion. Jew­ish ideas and sto­ries serve as recur­ring touch­stones through­out the book. Hillel’s three ques­tions frame a life­long inquiry into iden­ti­ty, respon­si­bil­i­ty, and lega­cy. The Exo­dus nar­ra­tive — Passover, the Ten Plagues, and the (author’s) Ten Bless­ing — offers a lens for under­stand­ing suf­fer­ing, renew­al, and grat­i­tude. The sto­ry of Chi­une Sug­i­hara, the Japan­ese diplo­mat sta­tioned in Lithua­nia who saved thou­sands of Jews dur­ing WWII, is held up as a mod­el of moral courage and eth­i­cal action. The book also engages Jew­ish life inti­mate­ly through reflec­tions on rais­ing chil­dren with Jew­ish val­ues, nam­ing rit­u­als, and the prac­tice of l’dor v’dor. For Jew­ish read­ers and com­mu­ni­ties, The Pen & the Mir­ror invites jour­nal­ing as a mod­ern prac­tice of chesh­bon hane­fesh—an acces­si­ble, con­tem­po­rary way to live Jew­ish wis­dom every day.

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